Did you know that your body has memory? Did you know that smells and seasons can trigger memories? They can and do! I love these beautiful brilliantly blue skies of September in Kansas City! However, September always brings memories of Oklahoma City as for nearly 20 years Gary and I traveled with our family and many friends and their families from Indian Creek to participate in a competitive but fun Labor Day Church of God Softball Tournament! It was a great time to renew friendships, meet new people and enjoy sitting in the sun together, cheering the church teams on! We always loved checking on the recent Indian Creek students who were attending Mid-America University while there. Finally the day came when Jeremy and Luke came of age to participate! They begged Gary to come out of retirement so that he could play with them! They said they had dreamed of that day since they were kids! That year Indian Creek won FIRST place in the tournament!
September leads to October and it was a mid-October morning, I remember Gary had left for the offices of Indian Creek Community Church just a few minutes earlier but was back frantically throwing clothes in a suitcase saying that he was leaving as soon as possible for Oklahoma City!
Good friends, Dan and Debbie Ettinger had called. Their oldest, Adam who was a senior at Mid-America Christian University and had just gotten married in June of the same year, had been struck by a truck and was in the hospital in critical condition!
How could that be? We had just had dinner with Adam and his young bride, Sarah. It was surreal to those of us left in Olathe to wait for news from the hospital and the family! Dan and Debbie Ettinger and their three children: Adam, Heidi and Kelly had been one of the first families to attend Indian Creek Community Church. Pastor Gary had personally knocked on every door in the Santa Barbara Estates where the Ettingers lived at the time.Our families became fast friends! Debbie even volunteered to keep all three of the Kendall kids: Kristen (5 yrs), Jeremy (3 yrs) and Luke(1 yr.) while I went to the hospital to deliver our fourth child, Megan in 1987.
Heidi was a frequent babysiter for the Kendall Klan. Kelly and Luke were toddlers together while Adam was a mentor to Kristen and Jeremy as Adam was a few years older than them and served as a summer Student Ministry Intern. Adam was preparing to become a pastor when he graduated and was so very excited about giving his life to help people find their way back to the God he loved and to whom he owed his redeemed life! He had dedicated most of his summers as a youth to travel to Mexico to spread that love and he was preparing to go wherever God would SEND him! He met his beloved wife, Sarah, at Mid-America Christian University and was thrilled that God allowed them to be married before Jesus returned! The absolutely giddy love struck pair were the VERY first couple to be married in Indian Creek's brand-new facility on Black Bob Road! What a sweet ceremony it was! Both the bride and the groom were teary-eyed with gratitude and happiness that God had allowed them to be connected in love and marriage! No one would have believed that Adam's would be the first funeral in the new facility as well.
That fatal mid-October morning Adam had left his new bride at home with her encouragement (we even heard that she kicked him out of bed to help him get up) to workout at Mid-America Christian University not far from their apartment. While on the way home just a few hundred feet from the entrance to the school Adam, who had a soft heart, stopped his truck on the far lane of the four lane road to assist an injured dog. Unfortunately, a man who was also driving a truck did not realize Adam's truck was stopped. He was probably traveling almost 40 mph when he struck Adam's truck from behind causing Adam's truck to run over Adam as he was bent over in front of it examining the dog he had stopped to help.
Gary had received the call soon after arriving at his office that morning. Adam had sustained head injuries and was in a local hospital in Oklahoma City in critical condition. How could that be? We had just had dinner with Adam and his young bride, Sarah, hadn't we? It was surreal to those of us left in Olathe to wait for news from the hospital and the family!
How? Why? Please God won't You heal him? Questions swarmed our heads and hearts! It was only a couple of days later that we be grudgingly accepted the news that Adam's healing would not be for this earth! God had already prepared a place for him in heaven and he was beating us all there to see his Savior face-to-face first! Devastated his wife of only a few months and family grieved their loss of his presence here. Our entire community grieved because when one weeps, we all weep. Adam is missed by many of us at Indian Creek Community Church. Certainly, we rejoice that he has his reward! But we selfishly miss the fun of his presence here among us now. He made a difference in many of our lives and we long for the day when we will see his face again, along with His Savior and ours, Jesus.
The reality is--none of us know when our time here is up! So Until then let's live as though today we might get hit by a truck! Let's live as though today is our last day to love one another and to make a difference with the unconditional love of Jesus Christ! Adam certainly did!